I can personally and professionally attest to the fragility of the human spirit. That’s because I have been there, along with the rest of us. One minute we believe we can change the world and the next minute we are giving up on it. The thin veil of self-confidence that envelopes each of us, and our children in particular, brings into question the propriety and opportunity we have as educators in the words that we use and the actions that we take. For just a moment, let us all think back as far as we can remember, for it is there among memories pieced together that we might recall the first time someone suggested that we could be good at something, that we had some…

confidence, success

The reality that we all face as teachers and leaders, and that no one seems to be talking about, is how our schools and curriculum are being asked to do much, much more than inspire life-long skills in reading, writing, and arithmetic. My how times have changed. As schools are thrust into the intriguing demands of social-emotional learning (SEL), we have to wonder how we ever got here without it and what the end-game of schooling will be someday if we can figure out how to navigate the pressures of covering so many content standards in so little time with teaching our children how to manage their emotions, build strong relationships, improve their social skillsets, and gain life-long confidence. What we might find out is…